Who is the real deal?

The Real Deal

Love Systems is the Real Deal

This weekend in Atlanta I had a documentary filmmaker following me around. They threw a mic on me and followed me as I taught and did some demo sets and worked with my students. It was a bit stressful – not only did I have to teach a bunch of guys, but I had 3 dudes with hidden cameras following me around watching my every success and failure. And then on top of all that stress, I have to get pretty girls to like me.


That said, we got some awesome in-field footage that’s probably going to wind up on television sometime in the next year. Beautiful women, make outs, pulls – we got the whole deal on cue in a space of a few hours when my students were in set.


And you know what? Love Systems is the ONLY company that does this.


Sure, there are guys with infield footage out there, and guys who talk a lot about how great they are, but nobody is willing to just go out there and open themselves up to criticism like me and the Love Systems boys.


You can run around with a hidden camera and edit it till it makes you look good, but can you do what Cajun did and do it all on TV, when they’re TRYING to make you look bad?


Can you do what I’ve done and have Playboy come to your bootcamps, or the Toronto star, or the Economist and have them come out saying you’re the real deal?  Or a third-party independent filmmaker?


This is the difference between the guys who are the real deal, and the guys who hide behind an internet pseudonym and brag with nothing to back it up.


I don’t spend a lot of time on this blog bragging. I would probably get more viewers if I did. But bragging is easy. Watch.


I’ve slept with 1,000 women.


No, I’ve slept with 10,000 women.


Fuck that. A BILLION! They were all tens.


See how easy that was? Anyone with a keyboard and an internet connection can brag till the cows come home. The internet is the perfect medium for delusional narcissists. They never have to prove anything. And they can get PAID with this BS.


At Love Systems, we talk softly. We don’t sit around and toot our own horns more than necessary. We just show up week after week and bring it. We show that our system works, and what is MUCH more important, we show that our system works for our students.


Those other guys can go ahead and brag and brag, and we’re going to keep doing what we’ve always been doing – teaching the best dating and pick up seminars on the planet. We’re going to teach the seminars that have the most evidence behind them, the most proof, and the most satisfied customers.  We’re going to continue to be the only dating coaching company in the world that let documentary filmmakers follow them around, that put their guys on TV, and that let the press come out to their programs.


And you know what? The gullible guys can waste their money on the competition. They can eat up the bragging and the promises and the excuses. I’d rather teach the smart guys, the guys who do their research and look at things with a critical eye. Those are the best students anyways, those are the guys who get good.


I love teaching smart students. I love that the average guy in my class is a guy with a good head on his shoulders and a good attitude. I love that I have a 99% satisfaction rate. I love that I help people get control over a really important, difficult and emotionally sensitive part of their lives. I love that I got an email this week from a student from 2007 who met the girl of his dreams and has a 2 year old kid now. I love that guys who arrived at my class looking like nervous wrecks are now suave, well-dressed, fun, popular guys. I love that stuff.


And that’s why I will continue to bring it, week after week, and prove myself in every single class I teach. I prove I’m the real deal. You shouldn’t accept any less from anyone.

About Chris Shepherd

Chris Shepherd is a dating coach operating out of Montreal. He is a founder of Love Systems, the world's largest dating coaching company for men. He likes Led Zeppelin, greek philosophy and Hemingway, and hates bad dates, mediocrity and douchebags. He recommends the book Magic Bullets for men who want to improve their success with women.


  1. Anonymous says:

    All true! I am still following your posts and blogs.

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