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Not giving a shit

September 26th, 2007 · 4 Comments

Ok, me giving a shit in grad school has officially lasted 3 weeks, and now I’m free. I got here thinking that grad school would be more serious than undergrad, but I was wrong.
Not giving a shit has freed me, I feel at ease once again.
Now, this doesn’t mean that I’m not going to work [...]

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Tags: inner game

Should I buy her a drink?

December 28th, 2006 · 1 Comment

A lot of guys ask me the question “is it OK for me to buy her a drink?”. It’s actually kind of a controversial subject amongst guys who teach others how to pick up. Some people will say “never”, because it makes you look supplicant, or needy, while others say you should always do it.
Personally, [...]

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Tags: Advice