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I don’t want a relationship right now.

August 23rd, 2007 · 5 Comments

This phrase is a huge game-killer for many reasons, whether she says it or you say it. There are a couple reasons why it sucks, the first of which is because it’s ambiguous. The problem is that “relationship” means different things to different people.
1 - It could mean “I am blowing [...]

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What it’s like to be a hot girl.

January 5th, 2007 · 4 Comments

So I dropped Olga off at the airport last night. This was the first time I’d gone on a trip with someone I was dating, and it was a good experience.
It was interesting though to spend a week with her and to see the way she interacts with the world and with men. In many [...]

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