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Inner Game - Turn off the Video Camera

September 4th, 2008 · 7 Comments

Ever wonder what people are thinking about you?
Have you ever seen a group of people chattering and laughing and maybe looking at you, and wonder if they’re talking about you? Then, do you wonder whether they’re saying good or bad things about you?
Are you ever talking to a woman, and you say something that could [...]

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My problem with Paul Janka

August 1st, 2008 · 20 Comments

I watched the Dr. Phil Interview with Paul Janka the other day, and I think I can summarize it like this:
Tall, good looking Harvard grad manages to sleep with 138 women over 10 years by devoting his entire life to getting laid.

Now, I’m not suggesting that Paul Janka has no game - I’m sure he [...]

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ROCK SOLID INNER GAME!

July 18th, 2008 · No Comments

Everywhere you go in the pickup scene, there are guys telling you that all you need is ROCK SOLID INNER GAME to get attraction and to make you a superstar pickup artist. Once you have ROCK SOLID INNER GAME, all your pickup problems will disappear and women will flock to you. If you don’t have [...]

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What makes you good.

May 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Someone asked me today the question: “How can you tell if a guy is going to be good at this game or not?”, and I had to think about it.
I’ve been a Lovesystems and Mystery Method Instructor for a long time now, and I’ve seen pretty much all the top guys here at MM when [...]

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Not giving a shit

September 26th, 2007 · 4 Comments

Ok, me giving a shit in grad school has officially lasted 3 weeks, and now I’m free. I got here thinking that grad school would be more serious than undergrad, but I was wrong.
Not giving a shit has freed me, I feel at ease once again.
Now, this doesn’t mean that I’m not going to work [...]

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