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Somebody on The Lounge (Lovesystem’s private student forum), asked me whether hot women are “bitchier” than less attractive women.
I wouldn’t say they’re bitchier - they’re often really sweet when you get to know them, but they’re definitely “tougher” when you’re hitting on them in a club.
But some advice
First off, you’re almost always going to get [...]

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Someone asked me today the question: “How can you tell if a guy is going to be good at this game or not?”, and I had to think about it.
I’ve been a Lovesystems and Mystery Method Instructor for a long time now, and I’ve seen pretty much all the top guys here at MM when [...]

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Your “afc” buddies don’t have to be good at game to be decent wingmen, they just need to NOT blow you out or make you look bad. In fact, a really nice, inoffensive AFC wingman is often better than a beginning PUA wingman - they don’t get laid, but they don’t mess up either.
So you [...]

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This was a question asked on the forum, and I thought I would repost it here.
Neil Strauss mentioned it in his book called “The Game”. I always thought it wasn’t true, and I would never become one… But now I am a social robot. I’m obsessed with game tactics, language patterns and body language. [...]

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If you’re a single guy who likes women, and have even half decent game, chances are you’ve been called a “player” at some time or another. Probably, at the time you didn’t know what to think of that word - is it a bad thing?? Is it a good thing? Is she telling me I’m [...]

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This is a Q and A from the Mystery Method Forums. I thought it presented some good insights.
Q: Ok I met this girl at a nightclub, I applied solid game, the girl is interested, we have been going out on 3 dates now, the last date we were on to the movies and well, there [...]

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This is part 3 in my picking up for beginners class.
Serously, this is a big deal. Most of the students I teach REEK of “pick up vibe” when I take them out on bootcamp. Even though I go over this in detail during the workshop, they do it anyways.
So, why don’t you hit on her [...]

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This is part 2 of my picking up for beginners series.
Approach, don’t wait for women to hit on you. Unless you’re really good looking, or in some profession that puts you in contact with beautiful women, you’re going to have to go out, look for women and approach them. This usually means going to bars, [...]

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Some guys have asked me to post a “beginner’s guide” to picking up, for those of you who are just finding this. I’m going to release this guide over a couple days, so stay tuned.
Beginner’s Guide to Picking up
Ok, so you want to learn how to pick up women. Perhaps you’ve been surfing around to [...]

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