Be honest with yourself. How many times has this happened?
You’re in a bar or at a party, and you see a girl you’re interested in, and you want to talk to her.
But instead of talking to her, you think to yourself “I’ll just have a drink first, to loosen up“.
And then maybe you have another drink, and maybe another after that.
And then maybe you wind up talking to her, and it actually goes pretty well.
And then you have another drink.
And then it all kind of falls apart, or just goes nowhere, but you’re happy because you talked to the girl you liked and had a good night. You enjoy your alcoholic buzz, have a few more drinks, and go home alone.
The fact is, for most guys, that’s how EVERY weekend goes. They get drunk before they approach, they chat with women a bit, and then they get more drunk and mess things up and try again the next day. Weekend after weekend. And NOTHING ever changes.
When I was in Perth last week I made a video about this, why it REALLY hurts your game, and how to get over using alcohol as a crutch. Don’t get me wrong, I love my beer, but if you want to improve your skills with women and develop REAL courage, you need to embrace the CHALLENGE of going out sober.
This video goes into some more detail, and there are some good strategies at the end for overcoming the pressure to drink. Check it out.
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