What would you text her?

Missed Connections

Somebody forwarded me this Craigslist missed connection, which I thought deserved a re-post, since it’s probably going to get taken down. So much of this reminds me of the life I lived before I learnt game – the lonely feeling of being attracted to someone, (in love even) yet unable to break the ice. Missed Connection – m4w I saw …

Chris ShepherdMissed Connections
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Louis CK on why you need to build Comfort

If you wonder why women don’t make a move on guys, or why they can often be flakey and fickle, this video illustrates an issue that a lot of guys aren’t fully aware of. As a dating coach, I tell guys that they need to make bold moves to get the women they desire, but for women, often their bold …

Chris ShepherdLouis CK on why you need to build Comfort
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TofuTofu from /r/seduction gets slammed by Jezebel

I quite regularly browse through /r/seduction on Reddit, and often submit my blog posts there (thanks for the upvotes everyone). Recently, one of the /r/seduction moderators, a guy using the handle of TofuTofu started a kickstarter project to fund his new book Above the Game. I haven’t really read his stuff, but he didn’t strike me as a huge asshole, so I …

Chris ShepherdTofuTofu from /r/seduction gets slammed by Jezebel

Do you have limiting beliefs about your looks?

In March, I talked about “The Power of Makeup” and exposed how powerful makeup can be in changing the way men perceive female beauty, and how limiting beliefs around beauty can hold men back from dating the women they like, and from liking the women they date. But illusions about beauty cut both ways. A lot of guys suffer from limiting …

Chris ShepherdDo you have limiting beliefs about your looks?

It’s Not About the Nail

It’s Not About the Nail from Jason Headley on Vimeo. Any man who has ever been in a serious relationship can relate to this video. Whereas men tend to keep silent about their problems until they are looking for a solution, most women are quite happy to talk (sometimes endlessly) about their problems, well before they have any intention of …

Chris ShepherdIt’s Not About the Nail

Evolution and the Friend Zone

 How I discovered a quirk of evolution that explains the Friend Zone and other weird things that come up in dating.  The first time I experienced the “Friend Zone” was in my first year of university. Her name was Iylana and she had bright green eyes and high cheekbones, and moved with this waify Russian elegance that drove me crazy. …

Chris ShepherdEvolution and the Friend Zone

Maybe she just has Bitchy Resting Face

Apologies for the lack of updates, I am finally back from an 8 week tour that led me to Hong Kong and Germany, and I’ve been working on a big post that will come out Monday. A friend of mine posted this video on her facebook wall, and I though it was both amusing and quite true. A lot of …

Chris ShepherdMaybe she just has Bitchy Resting Face
Map of the best countries for meeting women.

The Chris Shepherd Spring Tour: Vancouver, Hong Kong, Munich, Berlin, Paris

I just wanted to announce this on my blog for anyone who is interested. I’m going to be going on a big worldwide tour over the next few weeks, with stops in Miami, Vancouver, Hong Kong, Munich, Berlin and Paris. In all these places, I’m going to be giving one of my highly reviewed bootcamps, which will teach you how …

Chris ShepherdThe Chris Shepherd Spring Tour: Vancouver, Hong Kong, Munich, Berlin, Paris
Map of the best countries for meeting women.

Does this Map show the Best Countries for Game?

My job with Love Systems takes me around the world on a pretty regular basis, in the past 7 years I’ve taught or gamed in Tokyo, Amsterdam, Munich, Prague, London, Mexico City, Monaco, Frankfurt, Paris, Dublin and all over the UK, Australia and Canada. And one question that comes up pretty regularly from guys I meet is “What are the …

Chris ShepherdDoes this Map show the Best Countries for Game?
WGN News Interviewed Me

Five ways to improve your Dating Confidence (Video)

The good people at WGN Morning News interviewed me today on the secrets of confidence in dating. The video is below. It’s  hard to summarize the kind of stuff we teach at Love Systems into the kinds of short sound-bites that are suitable for a Friday morning news show. Anyway, I tried to summarize some of what I think is the most valuable …

Chris ShepherdFive ways to improve your Dating Confidence (Video)