How Many Times Should You Text?

Has Hook Up Culture Killed the Boyfriend

Here’s a question that comes up a lot. You meet a girl somewhere, have a bit of chemistry, and get her number. You text her once, and she doesn’t reply. So now you face the dilemma – How many times should you text her before you give up? The first thing you need to realize […]

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A Thousand Tiny Failures is a Narcissistic Sex Romp (And I like it)

A Thousand Tiny Failures

  Sebastian used to have manboobs, but he got them removed and now he’s living it up in Montreal. Unfortunately, his wingman is a cokehead closeted homosexual who likes to pick fights with guys in clubs by kissing them and then accusing them of being homophobes. “What the fuck dude!? Why did you hit me?” […]

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New Article at DatingAdvice.com

I wrote an article for DatingAdvice.com this week that you may want to check out on the Secret of Attraction: One of the most common questions I get from guys I am teaching is probably the most basic: What are women really attracted to? Let’s be honest, what men are attracted to is pretty straightforward. Guys […]

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What to text a girl.

What would you text her?

Knowing what to text a girl in different situations can make a huge difference in your dating life. If you know the right things to text a girl, you can usually turn 60% or more of the numbers they get into dates. But if you do things wrong, you’ll probably find that only about 10% […]

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Ethical Confidence

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Letting go of guilt and shame is an important part of being a confident man. But how do you do that without becoming an asshole?   Aaron was standing by the bar in an upscale pub in Toronto, it was 10:30 and he still hadn’t approached a girl yet. He was sipping a vodka soda […]

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Death of the Boyfriend: Redux

One of our good commenters (commentators?) who goes by “A Feminist” wrote an intelligent and thoughtful response to my Death of The Boyfriend post that deserves some front-page attention. I agree with you that people today aren’t necessarily sleeping with a higher quantity of partners, rather just not in bf/gf situations. But I think the […]

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The Death of the Boyfriend

Has Hook Up Culture Killed the Boyfriend

One of the niggling insecurities that I remember having in university was the vague feeling that not only  was everyone working harder than me  and getting better grades than me, but they were also probably having more fun and more sex too.  Turns out I was wrong – people were working harder then me but […]

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What Real Estate Marketers can Teach You About Women

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“The things you do scream so loud I cannot hear what you say”

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Missed Connections

What would you text her?

Somebody forwarded me this Craigslist missed connection, which I thought deserved a re-post, since it’s probably going to get taken down. So much of this reminds me of the life I lived before I learnt game – the lonely feeling of being attracted to someone, (in love even) yet unable to break the ice. Missed […]

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Louis CK on why you need to build Comfort

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(Sorry guys, the video’s down. I’m looking for an other.) If you wonder why women don’t make a move on guys, or why they can often be flakey and fickle, this video illustrates an issue that a lot of guys aren’t fully aware of. As a dating coach, I tell guys that they need to […]

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