Who is the real deal?

The Real Deal

This weekend in Atlanta I had a documentary filmmaker following me around. They threw a mic on me and followed me as I taught and did some demo sets and worked with my students. It was a bit stressful – not only did I have to teach a bunch of guys, but I had 3 [...]

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Five Ways to Fail with Women

How to Fail with Women

Sometimes looking at things from the opposite perspective can provide a bit of insight, so I’ve made a list of the five top things you can do to screw up your love life, fail with women and live alone! 1 – Never make the first move! If there’s something women hate, it’s men who go [...]

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Lovesystems Essentials VII is Out! (With Video!)

The Essentials

    If you haven’t been to the Love Systems Superconference, you don’t know what you’re missing. It’s an amazing weekend in Las Vegas, where all the best dating coaches and instructors from around the world fly in and teach an enlightening, yet gruelling 3 day (sometimes 4, 5 or 6 day) conference. There’s pretty [...]

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Inner Game Mini-Seminars in Montreal, Calgary, Atlanta!

I’m just going to make this brief. Due to the success of the last two Inner Game Mini-Seminars, in DC and Toronto, I’ve added two more in Montreal and Calgary and one in Atlanta will be ready to go in a few days. These seminars are 3h long, and cover some time-tested techniques that I [...]

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How to Stick to Your New Years Resolutions

New Years Resolutions

Let me ask you something: Did you stick to your New Years Resolutions last year? Do you even remember what they were? Don’t be ashamed, if you’re like most people, chances are you failed to stick to at least SOME of your New Years resolutions. Lets be honest, most people make the same resolutions over and [...]

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Accepting Yourself

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  A couple years ago now, I got a tattoo on my chest. I don’t really know why I got it.  I felt like getting a tattoo, and the meaning struck me. It was a quote by the Buddha on conquering oneself, and to me it represented a philosophy that was both deep, had personal [...]

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Cajun and I were reviewed in the Smoking Jacket

How to Fail with Women

I’ve been busy teaching bootcamps all month, so I haven’t had too much time to write, but the people at The Smoking Jacket (Playboy’s Safe for Work publication) were nice enough to send one of their reporters to my Toronto Bootcamp earlier this month and wrote a great article. Here’s just one quote from the piece – which I recommend you [...]

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Is Picking up Women Manipulative?

Are Pick Up Tactics Manipulative?

Because I’m open about my job, and proud of what I do, I am often challenged by people who presume that anyone who teaches men how to be better with women, must be teaching people to be manipulative.   To be fair, there are a lot of people in the “pickup” and “seduction” business that [...]

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My Journal from Paris

At a Cafe in Paris

I originally wrote this post in July. Across the street, a baker glances through the window as he closes his shop for an afternoon siesta. I’m drinking a coffee in a little cafe across the street, hunched over my laptop, writing. A dog across the way stares at me, curiously. Can he tell I’m from [...]

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Good Reading From Around the Web

Feminists give bad dating advice.

I haven’t done much writing this past week, since I’ve been teaching classes in Australia, drinking some good Shiraz and dealing with jet-lag, but I have done some good reading that I thought I would share with you. One article that caught my eye was Arden Leigh’s article on open relationships. As a Love Systems [...]

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