Cajun got two guys... the third got him from behind.

Everything Happens for a Reason

They say everything happens for a reason. I opened our hotel door at 4 AM to see Derek (Cajun) with his left eye swollen shut, and blood dripping from his left ear. He was smiling. “Don’t worry man, I got ‘em!”, he said, as he walked to the bathroom to check himself out. “There were three of them, I broke …

Chris ShepherdEverything Happens for a Reason

Lovesystems with Lawrence Leung on Australian TV

Cajun and I are in Sydney Australia this week, hanging around on Bondi Beach and doing a little bit of surfing before our dating seminar this weekend. Anyway, we were surprised to find out that Savoy was on Australian TV this weekend, in a segment for the TV show “Choose your own Adventure”… I haven’t heard of the “Rubics Cube” …

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Ten Fitness Tips that will REALLY change you.

This advice is aimed at men, and it’s aimed at men who are looking to become more attractive to women and improve their dating skills through physical fitness. If that’s not what you’re looking for, tough luck. If you want to learn how to attract women,  sign up for my FeedBurner Feed, which will give you free, quality advice on …

Chris ShepherdTen Fitness Tips that will REALLY change you.
Braddock's The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game

Text Message Game

Pretty much every day on The Attraction Forums, someone posts looking for advice on how to get together with a girl that is flaking on him. If this sounds like you, listen carefully. Usually the post goes like this: I met this girl at such and such a place, and got her phone number. The next day I texted her …

Chris ShepherdText Message Game

Shut Up Challenge Update

Alright, So the shut up challenge was announced a bit over a week ago, and we’re starting to get some field reports in from guys at the attraction forums. As I expected, there’s a good mix of comedy, tragedy and success. Basically Yes almost made me squirt milk out my nose with his opener. Ok so I tried this one …

Chris ShepherdShut Up Challenge Update
Cosmic Nature Healing

Tenmagnet & Cajun Pickup Video Podcast #2 – Approach Anxiety

So, our last podcast was a huge success, with almost 20,000 (!!) people tuning in to watch. Well, it took us almost a month, but Cajun and I managed to get our butts in gear and make another podcast. This time, the topic is a big one – approach anxiety. Cajun has some awesome stuff to say about visualization in …

Chris ShepherdTenmagnet & Cajun Pickup Video Podcast #2 – Approach Anxiety

The Shut Up Challenge

In my last post, I talked about the “Silence Exercise”… a game I play where I try and be as silent as possible in set. This is actually a really useful exercise for improving your bodylanguage, confidence and conversational skills. Anyway, I thought that I would start a little challenge to the guys on the The Attraction Forums and this …

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Running out of things to say? Shut up!

Ever run out of things to say when you’re talking to a woman? Let me guess, it happens all the time. From my experience as someone who’s been teaching pickup bootcamps for a long time, this is one of the most common problems that guys have. At Lovesystems, we’ve devoted a lot of time and energy to helping guys with …

Chris ShepherdRunning out of things to say? Shut up!

More on Negging

The New York Times has an article this week that talks about the sociological and biological background of teasing and negging, which I think is really insightful. The author, a professor of Psychology at Berckley, argues that teasing is a natural human behavior, and that, done properly, it helps to build strong social connections between people. But negging gets a …

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