Tenmagnet & Cajun Pickup Video Podcast #2 – Approach Anxiety

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So, our last podcast was a huge success, with almost 20,000 (!!) people tuning in to watch. Well, it took us almost a month, but Cajun and I managed to get our butts in gear and make another podcast. This time, the topic is a big one – approach anxiety. Cajun has some awesome stuff […]

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The Shut Up Challenge

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In my last post, I talked about the “Silence Exercise”… a game I play where I try and be as silent as possible in set. This is actually a really useful exercise for improving your bodylanguage, confidence and conversational skills. Anyway, I thought that I would start a little challenge to the guys on the […]

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Running out of things to say? Shut up!

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Ever run out of things to say when you’re talking to a woman? Let me guess, it happens all the time. From my experience as someone who’s been teaching pickup bootcamps for a long time, this is one of the most common problems that guys have. At Lovesystems, we’ve devoted a lot of time and […]

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Flaking: Never treat someone like a priority when they treat you like an option.

What would you text her?

Do you have a problem where people “flake” on you for social events? Dating coach Chris Shepherd gives some simple advice and attitude changes that can help this not be an issue.

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More on Negging

The New York Times has an article this week that talks about the sociological and biological background of teasing and negging, which I think is really insightful. The author, a professor of Psychology at Berckley, argues that teasing is a natural human behavior, and that, done properly, it helps to build strong social connections between […]

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T-Nation Interviews Savoy

Apparently there’s been a fair bit of interest on us from guys in the body-building community, and T-Nation has just recently done a piece on us. Personally, I don’t know if it’s a good idea for them. When their customers find out they can get girls while looking like this, they might cancel their subscriptions […]

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Cajun and I do a Pickup Video Podcast

Helping a student with some daygame on Sunday after bootcamp.

Cajun and I sat down last week for a bit, and answered some questions from viewers at The Attraction Forums. Hope you like it! Also, here are some of the videos we reference during the podcast. Mic Jagger and David Bowie – Dancing in the Street (Updated) Do your best jagger And here’s the original Spagett […]

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TSB’s Top Pickup Artists of 2008

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TSB Magazine has released their “Top Pickup Artists of 2008“. Cajun got the number three spot, Mr. M got number 8, and Soul and I got honorable mentions! All in all, it was a pretty good showing for Lovesystems. I had the privilige of meeting the TSB guys when I was in LA in October, […]

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Is Rational Intelligence a Spandrel? (Warning, Long)

This is a spandrel in architecture.

You’re probably thinking to yourself, “What the hell is a spandrel?”, and “what the heck does this have to do with picking up women?”. And the answers are “a concept in evolutionary biology which is inspired by architecture” and “not too much”.

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How to piss off a Bartender in Dublin

As a Canadian, one of my favorite things to do when I’m traveling is to act like a complete jerk, and then tell people that I’m American. I know it’s a pretty terrible thing to do, but I’m a bit of a nihilist, and kind of like contributing to Anti-American sentiments worldwide – if only […]

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