How to Pick Up Women for Beginners
Ok, so you want to learn how to pick up women, and you’re looking for free advice. Perhaps you’ve been surfing around to various websites, and seen a lot of people marketing products that seem to good to be true, or offer to provide some sort of magic pill that will make women come to you. But you’re smarter than that. Good for you.
Picking up doesn’t have to be terribly hard, but it requires practice and effort. You will need to get off your seat and stop making excuses. You need to be willing to risk failure, and you need to be prepared to look at yourself with a critical eye, and make changes. If you can do these things, you can go a long way.
Here are the five main things you need to know.
- How to approach a woman
- How to make a woman feel comfortable by NOT hitting on her right away
- How to build attraction with good bodylanguage and vocal tonality.
- How to understand female psychology (part two)
- How to have the confidence and attitude to be attractive (coming soon)
Once you’ve read that, here are some outside resources where you can find more information.
- The Attraction Forums – This is probably the #1 dating advice messageboard online, and full of great free advice on how to pick up women. I post there.
- Consider Buying Magic Bullets – Written by Savoy (my boss), this is probably the best basic guidebook for a man who is trying to improve his relationships with women. It’s to the point, free of BS, and works. It costs money but it’s worth it.
- A Lovesystems Bootcamp – Oh, did I mention I work for Lovesystems and teach dating bootcamps? I do. We’re the number one company in the business because we have the best instructors, and work hard for our students. My reviews are here.
- Improv Comedy Classes – Seriously…. improv comedy classes really improve your confidence and your ability to be interesting in conversation. I HIGHLY recommend these. The Second City is the biggest and probably the best improv training organization in the world, but you can find improv classes anywhere where unemployed comedians or actors can be found. Check at your local comedy club, or with your local university drama department.
- Check out the Lovesystems youtube channel’s Pickup Game Videos
Very good reading Tenmagnet. You have a great knack for explaining social thinking in a way that even a redneck like me gets. Get part 5 out already will ya?
July 14th, 2008 at 2:47 pmThanks man! I’ll work on part 5 soon, I swear
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