Five Dating Mistakes Most Men Don’t Know They’re Making


So here’s my appearance on Global Montreal this morning. I talked about the five dating mistakes that most men don’t know they’re making.


The mistakes I mentioned (and some ideas to improve if you have these problems) are:

#1 Bodylanguage – Read this article on Attractive Posture if you want some quick body language tips.

#2 Being Too Logical – Check out this Story Telling Webinar for some tips on being less logical.

#3 ┬áText Etiquette – Here’s some quick advice on What to Text Her.

#4 Not being Confident enough – Read about the Secret of Confidence

#5 Not taking the lead on the date. (I actually haven’t written about this. It’s on the to-do list)


So what do you think? Are these the most COMMON mistakes that men make? Or did I miss a few?


About Chris Shepherd

Chris Shepherd is a dating coach operating out of Montreal. He is a founder of Love Systems, the world's largest dating coaching company for men. He likes Led Zeppelin, greek philosophy and Hemingway, and hates bad dates, mediocrity and douchebags. He recommends the book Magic Bullets for men who want to improve their success with women.


  1. Jacob the general says:

    Can you please repost the link to the story telling webinar?

  2. I think you made some great points, body language and confidence and texting etiquette is something I see a lot of guys struggle with, even on my own site (House of Pheromones. However, the way I see things is that they are a result of deep down not developing real value and knowing that you are valuable.

    IMO, I think a lot of guys would get a lot more if they simply focused on themselves – that means developing a healthy body an mind, developing good conversation skills, a quality social circle, and advancing yourself in your professional careers. Once people start doing this seeing themselves as a respectable, high value person… then body language and how you text, the way you speak etc will also be of someone who is high value. You don’t have to fake it if its real :)

    Great articles.

    – PheroJoe

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