The Real Secret to Confidence (That Nobody has Told You Yet)

I remember being nineteen years old in my first week of University when I first heard the advice to “just be confident” when talking to women. Before I started figuring things out for myself, “just be confident” and “just be yourself” were the only two pieces of dating advice that I had ever really gotten, and it […]

How to Pick Up Women in Germany

I just made a video this weekend from Munich, Bavaria, and I wanted to share it. It goes over some of the major differences between how to pick up women in Germany vs other countries such as the US and Canada, where most of the Love Systems instructors are located. In the video I explain […]

Evolution and the Friend Zone

 How I discovered a quirk of evolution that explains the Friend Zone and other weird things that come up in dating.  The first time I experienced the “Friend Zone” was in my first year of university. Her name was Iylana and she had bright green eyes and high cheekbones, and moved with this waify Russian […]

10 Steps to Real Self Confidence.

Earlier this week I made a post about the real secret to self confidence. But the kind of confidence that I was describing in that post is really the endpoint of a long process. So to help you along that journey, here are ten steps you can start taking today, no matter how poor your […]

Six Reasons Why Women Flake on Dates. (And how to deal with it)

You’re excited. You ought to be excited; you have a date tonight and she’s gorgeous. You got her phone number a few nights ago at the swanky club downtown. At first she seemed intimidating and aloof, but by the end of your conversation she seemed totally into you. You had things in common. She had […]

There is no Easy Path

On my first day at the Thai Boxing camp in Chaing Mai, we started by jogging around the neighbourhood a few times, through the gravel roads, mango groves and narrow alleys of Thailand’s second biggest city. It was 35 degrees, and I was badly out of shape after several weeks of sitting on beaches and […]

Why women give bad dating advice.

I’m sitting in a cafe in Toronto with some friends, and we’ve chatted up the girls at the table next to us. They’re cute, and enjoying the conversation, so they start asking me the usual questions. “For work? What do you do?” says a brunette with big green eyes that my buddy has been chatting […]

Six Tips For an Improved Attractive Posture

Attractive Posture There is an epidemic of bad posture amongst men in North America. And it’s not just skinny guys or completely out of shape guys who suffer from this epidemic. Gym goers, workaholics and techies suffer equally. And they all have the same problem with their posture – weak, rounded shoulders, a forward-jutting head, […]

Ten Fitness Tips that will REALLY change you.

This advice is aimed at men, and it’s aimed at men who are looking to become more attractive to women and improve their dating skills through physical fitness. If that’s not what you’re looking for, tough luck. If you want to learn how to attract women,  sign up for my FeedBurner Feed, which will give […]

Flaking: Never treat someone like a priority when they treat you like an option.

Do you have a problem where people “flake” on you for social events? Dating coach Chris Shepherd gives some simple advice and attitude changes that can help this not be an issue.