Evolution and the Friend Zone

The Friend Zone

 How I discovered a quirk of evolution that explains the Friend Zone and other weird things that come up in dating.  The first time I experienced the “Friend Zone” was in my first year of university. Her name was Iylana and she had bright green eyes and high cheekbones, and moved with this waify Russian [...]

Flaking: Six Reasons women flake on dates. (And how to deal with it)

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You’re excited. You ought to be excited; you have a date tonight and she’s gorgeous. You got her phone number a few nights ago at the swanky club downtown. At first she seemed intimidating and aloof, but by the end of your conversation she seemed totally into you. You had things in common. She had [...]

There is no Easy Path

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On my first day at the Thai Boxing camp in Chaing Mai, we started by jogging around the neighbourhood a few times, through the gravel roads, mango groves and narrow alleys of Thailand’s second biggest city. It was 35 degrees, and I was badly out of shape after several weeks of sitting on beaches and [...]

Why women give bad dating advice.

In January, the Toronto wind stings the skin and makes your lips crack. The only thing to do is wrap yourself up in a warm jacket, pull your toque over your ears, and run (slowly, so as not to slip), down the street to your local pub where your fellow pale and frostbitten Canadians are [...]

Six Tips For an Improved Attractive Posture

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Attractive Posture There is an epidemic of bad posture amongst men in North America. And it’s not just skinny guys or completely out of shape guys who suffer from this epidemic. Gym goers, workaholics and techies suffer equally. And they all have the same problem with their posture – weak, rounded shoulders, a forward-jutting head, [...]

Ten Fitness Tips that will REALLY change you.

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This advice is aimed at men, and it’s aimed at men who are looking to become more attractive to women and improve their dating skills through physical fitness. If that’s not what you’re looking for, tough luck. If you want to learn how to attract women,  sign up for my FeedBurner Feed, which will give [...]

Flaking: Never treat someone like a priority when they treat you like an option.

Do you have a problem where people “flake” on you for social events? Dating coach Chris Shepherd gives some simple advice and attitude changes that can help this not be an issue.

Paul Janka is a bigger creep than I thought.

I saw on another site, little plug for Paul Janka, which mentions that Gawker hates on him, and has even made “false allegations of date rape”. I was curious, so I looked around and found this post. As of yet, I have no reason to believe anything contained in this allegation is false at all, [...]

My problem with Paul Janka

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If you want some, real, quality dating advice, that’s not weird, check out Love Systems and sign up for our mailing list: free dating advice delivered to your inbox – from the top guys in the business.    I watched the Dr. Phil Interview with Paul Janka the other day, and I think I can summarize [...]

Why you shouldn’t say “I don’t want a relationship right now.”

One of the big screw-up phrases that guys tend to say to women is (usually just as he’s taking his pants off), saying “I don’t want a relationship right now”. This phrase is a huge game-killer for many reasons, whether she says it or you say it. There are a couple reasons why it sucks, [...]