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Cajun and I sat down last week for a bit, and answered some questions from viewers at The Attraction Forums. Hope you like it!

Also, here are some of the videos we reference during the podcast.
Mic Jagger and David Bowie – Dancing in the Street
Do your best jagger
And here’s the original Spagett video, and the follow [...]

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TSB Magazine has released their “Top Pickup Artists of 2008“. Cajun got the number three spot, Mr. M got number 8, and Soul and I got honorable mentions! All in all, it was a pretty good showing for Lovesystems.
I had the privilige of meeting the TSB guys when I was in LA in October, and [...]

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I must say, this voicemail doesn’t quite match the supreme douchieness of Dimitri the Lover’s Worst Voicemail Ever, but I think it’s a pretty good laugh.
About a year ago, I met a girl in a bar, as is usual, and this girl got a bit tipsy. I decided to move on, but gave her my [...]

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If you’re a single guy who likes women, and have even half decent game, chances are you’ve been called a “player” at some time or another. Probably, at the time you didn’t know what to think of that word – is it a bad thing?? Is it a good thing? Is she telling me I’m [...]

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Direct or indirect, that is the question.
Do you go right in, all ballsy and say “Hey, you’re cute, come here” when you start up a conversation, or do you slide in under the radar, and start a “normal” conversation before you hit on a girl.
Does it even matter?
The answer is, yes, it does matter, but [...]

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Savoy and Sinn have posted recently about some hilarious “shock” openers they’ve been using, with a lot of success.
Here’s one that I’ve been using recently. It’s not the best opener ever, but I like it a lot because it’s fun and it gets some great reactions.
“Hey guys… how long should you wait after breaking [...]

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In my last post, I promised that I’d give some specific examples of Easter Egg Theory in action. So here we go…
If you’ve read Magic Bullets, you probably know that one of the things you want to communicate to a woman is that you regularly date beautiful women, and that you’re basically in “her league” [...]

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I actually wrote this post on Easter, but I just finished it now, so the title isn’t quite as topical as it ought to be. I wanted to talk about “easter egg” theory in storytelling, because I think it’s basically the key to telling really cool stories without coming across like bragging.
Basically, it works like [...]

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One of my former students (puzzler), has asked me to analyze some of his stories, and give some feedback on them. I asked him if I could put it in my blog, and he kindly agreed. Hopefully some of these examples will be useful to all you guys there.
I have this friend that I [...]

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As you guys probably know, we talk a lot here about three “Attraction Switches”, which are the core traits that women find attractive in men. The three switches are 1 – Preselected by women 2- Leader of men and 3 – Protector of loved ones. I’ve been thinking about this for a while, and I [...]

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