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The videos from our Toronto TV appearance are now online. If you’ve ever wondered what a Lovesystems bootcamp looks like from the inside, here’s a little peek! Share and Enjoy:

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One of the more common slanders that ill-informed misandrist bloggers and journalists have leveled at Lovesystems is that we teach men to “grope” women as part of our method. Fortunately, dispelling myths is something I enjoy doing. The fact is, touch is a crucial element in creating chemistry. A a polite, 3-4 foot conversational distance [...]

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Well, this came as quite a surprise, but the Economist just published an article mentioning Lovesystems, entitled “Dating in the Downturn“. All in all, it takes a pretty businesslike approach to the topic, comparing Lovesystems to eHarmony and Match.com, but noting: …online giants are missing a trick that the underground pick-up industry learned long ago. [...]

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At the Lovesystems office, we have a little wall where we put all of the weirdest mail that we’ve gotten. A lot of these messages are people flaming us, or crazy fans. We even have a few unsolicited emails from women who want Lovesystems instructors to come to their cities and pick them up. But [...]

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I’ve just found out that sometime next week, the Tyra Banks Show is going to do a feature on Lovesystems. I wish I could have been on there, despite the fact that the media generally prefers to paint PUA’s/Dating Coaches/whatever you want to call us as liars, douchebags or asshats (though to be fair, some [...]

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If anyone knows something about relationship management, it’s my buddy (and boss) Nick Savoy. This guy is the master of making beautiful women stick around and adore him. Savoy has released a few video teasers from his upcoming Relationship Management product, which looks like it’s going have some awesome relationship advice. I say looks like [...]

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From the New York Times today… “What do women want“, an article on female psychology, desire and arousal. She pronounced, as well, “I consider myself a feminist.” Then she added, “But political correctness isn’t sexy at all.” For women, “being desired is the orgasm,” Meana said somewhat metaphorically — it is, in her vision, at [...]

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Do you have a problem where people “flake” on you for social events? Dating coach Chris Shepherd gives some simple advice and attitude changes that can help this not be an issue.

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The New York Times has an article this week that talks about the sociological and biological background of teasing and negging, which I think is really insightful. The author, a professor of Psychology at Berckley, argues that teasing is a natural human behavior, and that, done properly, it helps to build strong social connections between [...]

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Apparently there’s been a fair bit of interest on us from guys in the body-building community, and T-Nation has just recently done a piece on us. Personally, I don’t know if it’s a good idea for them. When their customers find out they can get girls while looking like this, they might cancel their subscriptions [...]

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