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One of the more common slanders that ill-informed misandrist bloggers and journalists have leveled at Lovesystems is that we teach men to “grope” women as part of our method. Fortunately, dispelling myths is something I enjoy doing.
The fact is, touch is a crucial element in creating chemistry. A a polite, 3-4 foot conversational distance is [...]

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Well, this came as quite a surprise, but the Economist just published an article mentioning Lovesystems, entitled “Dating in the Downturn“. All in all, it takes a pretty businesslike approach to the topic, comparing Lovesystems to eHarmony and Match.com, but noting:
…online giants are missing a trick that the underground pick-up industry learned long ago. “You [...]

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At the Lovesystems office, we have a little wall where we put all of the weirdest mail that we’ve gotten. A lot of these messages are people flaming us, or crazy fans. We even have a few unsolicited emails from women who want Lovesystems instructors to come to their cities and pick them up.
But the [...]

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I’ve just found out that sometime next week, the Tyra Banks Show is going to do a feature on Lovesystems. I wish I could have been on there, despite the fact that the media generally prefers to paint PUA’s/Dating Coaches/whatever you want to call us as liars, douchebags or asshats (though to be fair, some [...]

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If anyone knows something about relationship management, it’s my buddy (and boss) Nick Savoy. This guy is the master of making beautiful women stick around and adore him.
Savoy has released a few video teasers from his upcoming Relationship Management product, which looks like it’s going have some awesome relationship advice. I say looks like because [...]

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From the New York Times today… “What do women want“, an article on female psychology, desire and arousal.
She pronounced, as well, “I consider myself a feminist.” Then she added, “But political correctness isn’t sexy at all.” For women, “being desired is the orgasm,” Meana said somewhat metaphorically — it is, in her vision, at once [...]

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Do you have a problem where people “flake” on you for social events? Dating coach Chris Shepherd gives some simple advice and attitude changes that can help this not be an issue.

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The New York Times has an article this week that talks about the sociological and biological background of teasing and negging, which I think is really insightful. The author, a professor of Psychology at Berckley, argues that teasing is a natural human behavior, and that, done properly, it helps to build strong social connections between [...]

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Apparently there’s been a fair bit of interest on us from guys in the body-building community, and T-Nation has just recently done a piece on us.
Personally, I don’t know if it’s a good idea for them. When their customers find out they can get girls while looking like this, they might cancel their subscriptions [...]

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Cajun and I sat down last week for a bit, and answered some questions from viewers at The Attraction Forums. Hope you like it!

Also, here are some of the videos we reference during the podcast.
Mic Jagger and David Bowie – Dancing in the Street
Do your best jagger
And here’s the original Spagett video, and the follow [...]

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