The good people at WGN Morning News interviewed me today on confidence in dating. The video is below the break. It’s quite hard to summarize the kind of stuff we teach at Love Systems into the kinds of short sound-bites that are suitable for a Friday morning news show. Anyway, I tried to summarize some of what [...]
Inner Game Archives
Inner Game in Dating is all about learning to overcome the inner obstacles to creating attraction from women. Fear, anxiety and self-doubt are the enemies, confidence and relaxed competence are the goals. In the end, improving your inner game is the best thing you can do for your love life. Here is an archive of Inner Game related advice, for your reference.
March 7, 2013
How to Really Get Over Sticking Points for Good
A lot of the time, the problems that men have with women and with game are psychological in nature. I’m not talking about serious psychological problems, but rather psychological blocks, or “sticking points” that even emotionally healthy people have and which prevent them from really using the knowledge and skills that they already have. People who have [...]
February 22, 2013
Do Men Really Need to Get In Touch with their Emotions?
I had an interesting discussion on the Postmasculine.com blog that I thought I would bring over here. The question is, do men really need to get in touch with their emotions? I’ve edited and copied the discussion, and my comments are at the bottom. BigLifer There is a Bro Code. It is a good thing. Stop apologizing [...]
December 31, 2012
How to Stick to Your New Years Resolutions
Let me ask you something: Did you stick to your New Years Resolutions last year? Do you even remember what they were? Don’t be ashamed, if you’re like most people, chances are you failed to stick to at least SOME of your New Years resolutions. Lets be honest, most people make the same resolutions over and [...]
November 22, 2012
Accepting Yourself
A couple years ago now, I got a tattoo on my chest. I don’t really know why I got it. I felt like getting a tattoo, and the meaning struck me. It was a quote by the Buddha on conquering oneself, and to me it represented a philosophy that was both deep, had personal [...]
September 18, 2012
10 ways that the PUA scene is good for men.
Preface: I don’t really like the word PUA – I think it’s a cheezy term, and one that is slowly dying. I much prefer to be called a Dating Coach, because that’s actually what my job is – to teach men the science and skill of meeting and dating the women they want to meet. [...]
September 6, 2012
10 Steps to Real Self Confidence.
Earlier this week I made a post about the real secret to self confidence. But the kind of confidence that I was describing in that post is really the endpoint of a long process. So to help you along that journey, here are ten steps you can start taking today, no matter how poor your [...]
September 4, 2012
The Real Secret to Confidence (That Nobody has Told You Yet)
I remember being nineteen years old in my first week of University when I first heard the advice to “just be confident” when talking to women. Before I started figuring things out for myself, “just be confident” and “just be yourself” were the only two pieces of dating advice that I had ever really gotten, and it [...]
May 29, 2012
Why Don’t Women Like “Nice Guys”?
I think it’s really important to distinguish between niceness and kindness. Kindness is a real, positive, desirable trait in a romantic partner. Niceness is just the ability to be inoffensive. Most women who don’t like “nice guys” are perfectly affable toward kind men as a dateable group.
May 5, 2012
There is no Easy Path
On my first day at the Thai Boxing camp in Chaing Mai, we started by jogging around the neighbourhood a few times, through the gravel roads, mango groves and narrow alleys of Thailand’s second biggest city. It was 35 degrees, and I was badly out of shape after several weeks of sitting on beaches and [...]
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