The answer: Online Game.

As you may know, Cajun’s online game book is coming out this week, and I can’t recommend it enough. Not just because I contributed a chapter, but because I’ve used a lot of the techniques that Cajun describes in his book and I can testify to the fact that they’re awesome. In fact, Cajun’s online game advice actually enabled me to survive one weekend when I was trapped in Vancouver with no money, no friends, and nothing but an empty room to live in. I guess you can’t say it saved my life, because I don’t think you can starve in just four days, but his advice definitely saved me from being damn hungry.

Gosh, where will I start:

It was Labor day long weekend, and I was moving to Vancouver to attend graduate school. The cab dropped me off at my nice new empty apartment in my nice new neighborhood in a nice new city.  I pulled out my wallet to pay the cab driver. The fare was $17, and all I had in my wallet was a twenty.

Literally. There was just a twenty, and my driver’s license. Everything else was gone.

I won’t go into a lot of detail into how I managed to lose both my credit card and my bank card at the beginning of a long weekend, right when I was moving to a new city where I had nothing and knew nobody. But let’s just say that my goodbye party back in Toronto was pretty damn wild, and I also lost a pair of shoes, a jacket and my ability to drink tequila without retching.

The Cab driver was still looking at me, so I handed over the twenty dollar bill.  “Sorry, buddy, no tip” I said to him, knowing that this three dollars change was going to have to last me the whole long weekend, until the banks opened on Tuesday (it was Friday morning).

I pulled my bags out of the trunk, threw them in my new, empty apartment, and sat down on the floor. I had three bucks, the banks were closed for the long weekend, I had no food in the fridge; I didn’t even have a couch I could rifle through for change.

I took my three bucks and went to the grocery store, and bought three cans of beans and a can of tuna. I figured that would keep me alive for four days. Of course, I soon realized that I didn’t have a can opener at my new apartment.

I’m a pretty resourceful guy, so I guess I could have just bashed open the cans of beans with a rock or something, but that would be undignified. Thankfully, I had my laptop with me, so I hatched a plan. I found a nearby unsecured wi-fi network, and set to work trying to get myself fed.

There’s nothing like a little bit of hunger, and a lot of boredom to motivate you. I sat in my little empty room and vigorously updated my online dating profile. I changed my location to Vancouver, wrote a few clever witty lines that would grab a woman’s attention, and then started going on the search feature and messaging women.

I think I had only sent about 5 messages when I got my first reply. By dinnertime, I had a girl driving in from out of town to pick me up and show me Vancouver. She knew about my predicament, and she was pretty cool about it – I told her I would get the second date.

Of course, it was completely humiliating. I actually asked the waiter for the leftovers in a doggy bag at the end of the date (Dating tip: never, ever do this, unless the only alternative is starvation). But she was actually a cool girl, and we had a good time.  By the time I made it home, I had two other messages from women who wanted to meet up with me. One of them even came over with a can opener.

What had started out as a huge disaster actually turned into a pretty fun (if slightly humbling) weekend. By the time the banks opened on Tuesday, I had made a few friends, and my dating life in Vancouver was already getting kind of busy.

All thanks to online game.

Cajun’s online game book is coming out this week, and you can get it here. 

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How Online Game Saved My Life (well, kinda)

• Cajun the Pick Up Artist on Keys to the Vip (With Video)
• Braddock’s New Phone Game Book
• Lovesystems on the Tyra Banks Show
• Cajun and I will be on CP24 Tomorrow!
• Cajun is on Keys to the VIP

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Under Construction

• Site redesign
• Lovesystems on the Tyra Banks Show
• Picking up is like blackjack
• My problem with Paul Janka
• My problem with Paul Janka

This is totally free, and is an awesome opportunity. We’ve done a few of these Q&A’s before, and they always fill up fast. This is also going to be one of your final opportunities to get info on Social Circle Game, since the LAST EVER Social Circle Mastery course is happening on the 15th.

So, get off your butt, register for the call and submit your question here:

http://www.lovesystems.com/social-circle-call

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Social Circle Mastery – Free Q&A

• Public Service Announcement – Phone Game
• Dropping Game
• Braddock’s New Phone Game Book
• Game is better than money!
• Social V. Rational intelligence

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The Single Girls Guide to Meeting European Men

• Why men are better than women (at giving dating advice to men).
• Is Roissy’s Email from Mystery? – An Analysis.
• Dealing with your buddies.
• Dating Advice from the 1930′s
• Smart guys date in paralell

I haven’t read The Game in ages, but I seem to recall it being mentioned as a place where mystery took his dates. I can say for sure that Cajun and I used to take dates there, thought I would always warn women not to eat there.

Anyway, it’s really a shame. The Green Room was one of those few things that are both amazing and awful, like Lindsay Lohan or Tommy Wiseau’s “The Room”.

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Pick Up Landmark Closes

• Toronto Dating Resources
• Canada Pick Up Guide
• Sex Matters does a Story on Pick Up Artists (With Cajun and I)
• Why men are better than women (at giving dating advice to men).
• Where to Pick Up in Canada

I don’t want to keep going on and on about how great this course is but let me just finish by saying that I went to a Tony Robbins UPW seminar in Long beach last August which changed my life. I thought that nothing on earth could compare to that weekend until I sat down within feet of Cajun , Tenmagnet , Prestige and Vercetti .

Also:

Eye-opening . Self-improvement. Life changing. These are some words I could attribute to this bootcamp . It gave me direction in a previously absent love life. I was able to engage women in good conversation I previously dreamed of talking to. I was able to beat down those negative thoughts that hold people back. I felt my love life taking a new turn.

That’s right – better than TONY ROBBINS BITCHES!

The whole thread can be found here

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The Reviews are In (And they’re good)

• How To Approach Women
• Tenmagnet’s Student Reviews
• Direct vs. Indirect
• Great Comment
• Sex Matters does a Story on Pick Up Artists (With Cajun and I)

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Best Motivational Video Ever

• Be a Risk-Taker!
• Free Dating Advice – Live Q&A on the Attraction Forums
• Lovesystems on the Tyra Banks Show
• Cajun and I will be on CP24 Tomorrow!
• Vancouver PUA Resources

Nonetheless, I have always wondered what kind of person who see’s RJ on Youtube or on TV, or reads Ross Jeffrie’s paranoid and narcissistic rants and thinks to themselves “I want to learn from this man; I want to be more like him!”. Now, someone has gone and written a hilarious review of Ross Jeffries’ seminar, and saved me the discomfort of having to attend for myself.

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Inside a Ross Jeffries Seminar

• How to Pick Up Women for Beginners
• Keychain and 5.0 in Amsterdam!
• Lovesystems on the Tyra Banks Show
• Why men are better than women (at giving dating advice to men).
• Lovesystems in the Economist

The main observation the researchers made was that women paid attention to the “core” of the body, much more than the arms and legs. This jives with my observation that most lousy dancers focus on flailing their arms around to the rhythm, and bouncing up and down with their legs. Good dancers dance with their heads and their hips and their shoulders. Go out to a club and see how many guys are using their hips when they dance – it’ll be the guys who have girls around them.

Here are some more tips I’ve observed to help you be a good dancer, in no particular order.

1 – Make some space around yourself. - Whether you’re dancing with a partner or just “freestyling” on the dance floor, you want to make some space around yourself (with your elbows, if necessary). With a partner, this makes her feel more comfortable, and prevents douchebags from bodyslamming you. When you’re freestyling, it makes you look more alpha and gives you more room to dance well. Oh, and make sure you have at least SOME women in your group. Dancing by yourself or with other guys is really, really lame.

2 – Move with the music - The study cited by the BBC found that women were attracted to men who used a variety of different dance moves. In a club, this means you want to change up your dance pattern every few measures of the song. Use the lyrics of the song as inspiration.

3 – Exert yourself – If you’re dancing to a high energy song, you should be tired at the end of it. If you’re not, you’re not exerting enough energy. Moving just your arms and legs is easy. Add some bounce to your step, engage your hips and your shoulders and you’ll be dancing better and tiring yourself out more.

4 – Get off the dancefloor when a crappy song comes on - Some songs or styles of music aren’t your cup of tea, some just suck in general. If you can’t dance to the music, get off the dance floor. That will help prevent you from undoing all the good work you’ve been doing earlier.

5 – Engage your whole body - If you’re focusing too much on moving your arms and legs, you’re ignoring the subtlety that makes good dancers good. Your

And the MOST IMPORTANT piece of advice on how to dance well is to feel at ease and don’t let self-consciousness hold you back at all. A bad mental state will tighten up your back and shoulders and make you look stiff. Realize that most guys absolutely stink at dancing, and that by being confident and putting some energy into your dancing puts you in the top %5 of guys at a club.

Before I go, let me leave you with a video of Mick Jagger dancing. Keep in mind that Mick Jagger is dressed like an idiot, and in many ways is moving in a way that looks ridiculous. But he shakes his hips, beams confidence, and when this video was made, he was unquestionably one of the sexiest men in the world.

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How to dance to be more attractive

• Learn to Dance
• Six Tips For an Improved Attractive Posture
• Edmonton PUA Resources
• Paul Janka is a bigger creep than I thought.
• Calgary PUA Resources

Also – check out how Jeremy’s bodylanguage changes when he takes on the different roles. It’s a very good illustration of how good bodylanguage differs from bad.

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Soul has a new Video.

• Is your bodylanguage right?
• Attention Londoners!
• How to build attraction with good bodylanguage and vocal tonality.
• How to Pick Up Women for Beginners
• Cajun the Pick Up Artist on Keys to the Vip (With Video)