Evolution and the Friend Zone

The Friend Zone

 How I discovered a quirk of evolution that explains the Friend Zone and other weird things that come up in dating.  The first time I experienced the “Friend Zone” was in my first year of university. Her name was Iylana and she had bright green eyes and high cheekbones, and moved with this waify Russian [...]

Maybe she just has Bitchy Resting Face

Apologies for the lack of updates, I am finally back from an 8 week tour that led me to Hong Kong and Germany, and I’ve been working on a big post that will come out Monday. A friend of mine posted this video on her facebook wall, and I though it was both amusing and [...]

The Chris Shepherd Spring Tour: Vancouver, Hong Kong, Munich, Berlin, Paris

I just wanted to announce this on my blog for anyone who is interested. I’m going to be going on a big worldwide tour over the next few weeks, with stops in Miami, Vancouver, Hong Kong, Munich, Berlin and Paris. In all these places, I’m going to be giving one of my highly reviewed bootcamps, [...]

Does this Map show the Best Countries for Game?

Map of the best countries for meeting women.

My job with Love Systems takes me around the world on a pretty regular basis, in the past 7 years I’ve taught or gamed in Tokyo, Amsterdam, Munich, Prague, London, Mexico City, Monaco, Frankfurt, Paris, Dublin and all over the UK, Australia and Canada. And one question that comes up pretty regularly from guys I [...]

Five ways to improve your Dating Confidence (Video)

The good people at WGN Morning News interviewed me today on confidence in dating. The video is below the break. It’s quite hard to summarize the kind of stuff we teach at Love Systems into the kinds of short sound-bites that are suitable for a Friday morning news show. Anyway, I tried to summarize some of what [...]

The Power of Makeup

Dani Daniels

The other day, Cajun forwarded me a link to a gallery featuring pornstars without makeup. Apparently it’s been circulating around the internet quite a bit this week. Looking though it, one thing becomes glaringly obvious – most of these women, who are celebrated for their beauty and look pretty damn hot when they are on [...]

How to Really Get Over Sticking Points for Good

elephantrider

A lot of the time, the problems that men have with women and with game are psychological in nature. I’m not talking about serious psychological problems, but rather psychological blocks, or “sticking points” that even emotionally healthy people have and which prevent them from really using the knowledge and skills that they already have. People who have [...]

RSD Jeffy gets burned.

RSD Jeffy's Text Game

Jeffy from RSD has gotten a bit of negative attention from the press. It seems as though a writer for Jezebel went on a date with RSD Jeffy and wrote about her negative experience. This caused other women to speak up about their stories about RSD Jeffy, including a professional escort, and several others. Nobody had anything nice to say.

Is this Book “The Game” for Women? A review of Nick Savoy’s “It’s Your Move”

It's Your Move by Nick Savoy Cover

  At Love Systems, we’re always working on new things, and trying to push the boundaries of how you can teach dating and seduction. So, when Nick Savoy asked me a few months ago whether I thought it was a good idea to try teaching “The Game” to women, I said hell yeah – but [...]

Who is the real deal?

The Real Deal

This weekend in Atlanta I had a documentary filmmaker following me around. They threw a mic on me and followed me as I taught and did some demo sets and worked with my students. It was a bit stressful – not only did I have to teach a bunch of guys, but I had 3 [...]