Comments on: Relationship Management: Getting a women to leave in the morning. http://www.tenmagnet.com/2009/06/21/relationship-management-getting-a-women-to-leave-in-the-morning/ Free Dating and pick up artist advice from Tenmagnet, a Lovesystems/Mystery Method Corp instructor. Thu, 02 Sep 2010 20:06:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Elektro http://www.tenmagnet.com/2009/06/21/relationship-management-getting-a-women-to-leave-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-1164 Elektro Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:40:36 +0000 http://www.tenmagnet.com/?p=1166#comment-1164 I agree with Erika. I like your classy approach. Doesn't burn any bridges, and keeps thinks positive. I agree with Erika. I like your classy approach. Doesn’t burn any bridges, and keeps thinks positive.

]]> By: Erika http://www.tenmagnet.com/2009/06/21/relationship-management-getting-a-women-to-leave-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-1046 Erika Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:48:44 +0000 http://www.tenmagnet.com/?p=1166#comment-1046 Tenmagnet, I like your classy approach to this. Clear communication and respect for both of your needs. I like how you are assertive about your own priorities but also taking her emotions into account. For example, a woman is likely to feel way calmer about you kicking her out if you have a plan to see her later in the week as you suggested. nice post :-) Tenmagnet,

I like your classy approach to this. Clear communication and respect for both of your needs. I like how you are assertive about your own priorities but also taking her emotions into account. For example, a woman is likely to feel way calmer about you kicking her out if you have a plan to see her later in the week as you suggested.

nice post :-)

]]> By: Adonis http://www.tenmagnet.com/2009/06/21/relationship-management-getting-a-women-to-leave-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-1045 Adonis Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:24:43 +0000 http://www.tenmagnet.com/?p=1166#comment-1045 I also like to "seed" the thought of her leaving after sex early on. To do this: Early in the interaction I will talk about how "I'm such a finicky sleeper (which is true...I have to arrange 5-6 pillows in the right place to even attempt to sleep right) and that it sucks because a lot of women will want to stay the night and as much as I love to cuddle (ok...that part is kind of a lie), I can't sleep when someone else is in my bed...and I need my beauty rest. It's funny cuz a lot of girls think it has something to do with them and can't handle it when I enforce my no 'sleep over' rule...but really I would rather us go home after, get a full night's sleep so we can have more exiting adventures in the future. You're not gonna be all weird when I enforce my no sleep-over rule are you?" This does a few things. 1) It gets her to accept the frame that you guys are going to be hooking up; 2) gets her to accept before that she is not going to be staying the night; & 3) gets her to qualify herself as "not being like other girls". This is what I do and it works great for me since I truly DO have a no sleep-over rule! I also like to “seed” the thought of her leaving after sex early on. To do this: Early in the interaction I will talk about how “I’m such a finicky sleeper (which is true…I have to arrange 5-6 pillows in the right place to even attempt to sleep right) and that it sucks because a lot of women will want to stay the night and as much as I love to cuddle (ok…that part is kind of a lie), I can’t sleep when someone else is in my bed…and I need my beauty rest. It’s funny cuz a lot of girls think it has something to do with them and can’t handle it when I enforce my no ‘sleep over’ rule…but really I would rather us go home after, get a full night’s sleep so we can have more exiting adventures in the future. You’re not gonna be all weird when I enforce my no sleep-over rule are you?”

This does a few things. 1) It gets her to accept the frame that you guys are going to be hooking up; 2) gets her to accept before that she is not going to be staying the night; & 3) gets her to qualify herself as “not being like other girls”.

This is what I do and it works great for me since I truly DO have a no sleep-over rule!

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