Comments on: Flaking: Never treat someone like a priority when they treat you like an option.

By: Nachomaman

Nachomaman — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 17:17:53 +0000

Frankly, I wouldn’t date anyone who wasn’t interetested enough to make time for me, and I am surprised to read that you conisiider this a dating strategy. I wouldn’t even treat a friend like this, and would not for one minute consider wasting one minbute whom I respected so little. So, what I’m saing is that if you are tring to get disrespected, this is a great way to accomplish that goal.

By: Fernanda

Fernanda — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 14:32:15 +0000

not treating anyone as priority when they treat you as an option is one thing. I have a child and he is my priority, other than that, i’d do anything to date the guy if i like him. tired of games.

By: Oldfashioned

Oldfashioned — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 05:44:40 +0000

I agree with not treating anyone as priority who treats you as an option, but this is all just a sign of horrible moral decay- no one keeping their word or doing what they say, or having any solid intentions of doing what they say. I can’t stand people like that. I’d rather have one friend in a million who says yes or no and means it, without the games, than a thousand flakey assholes who are not worth their word.

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By: Vic

Vic — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 04:48:06 +0000

Um…good luck in finding a meaningful relationship.

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By: James

James — Wed, 05 May 2010 15:35:47 +0000

I agree with 10magnet somewhat, but eventually, if a person never does anything with you, then you aren’t really an option at all for them. It’s delusional to think you’re an option for someone if they’ve never owned up to a date.

By: LIZ

LIZ — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:39:58 +0000

HOW EXACTLY ARE YOU GOING TO FIND OUT IF SOMEONE IS FLAKY IF YOU DONT TREAT IT AS A PRIORITY? MANY MEN AND WOMEN I KNOW LOOK FOR SOMEONE WHO SHOWS INTENTION WHEN DATING, THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE JUST SOMEONES OPTION. ITS GOING TO BE DISAPPOINTING NOW OR LATER.

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