First of all, I would like to thank Advice Dog for agreeing to this debate today. You can visit his website here.
A lot of women will flake on a particular set of plans once, maybe even twice, but if you have good phone game, built decent attraction when you first met,
and don’t make a flake into a big deal, the majority will meet up in the end. On the other hand, if you start using guilt, or whining about getting flaked on, you’re TOAST. She’s going to stop answering the phone.
Listen, I agree that improving your love-life is a really important goal. But like many things in life, trying harder doesn’t necessarily get you more results.
A guy whose life revolves around women is the kind of guy that women don’t want to be with. You need to make sure you keep balance in your life, and focus on the things in your life that make your life attractive and interesting to women. In the long run, having an interesting life does more for your game than anything you can read in a book.
Advice dog is the author of “Picking up Bitches”. If you think this is the dumbest blog post you’ve ever read, please flame me in the comments section below.
*By flake, I mean a last minute cancellation or change of plans. Getting “stood up” is not flaking – you have every right to be pissed off when you get stood up.
2 responses so far ↓
1 Anon non non // Aug 19, 2008 at 3:11 am
Ok then. But how do you handle a flake without coming across as a nice guy and still exude this coolness and laid back vibe?
2 Tenmagnet // Aug 19, 2008 at 2:04 pm
Being a “nice guy” is only a problem when that’s ALL you are.
So don’t worry about being a nice guy on the phone, or here and there in the relationship when it’s appropriate. Just make sure to show her your bad-boy, assertive and dominant side the rest of the time.
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