Somebody on The Lounge (Lovesystem’s private student forum), asked me whether hot women are “bitchier” than less attractive women.
I wouldn’t say they’re bitchier – they’re often really sweet when you get to know them, but they’re definitely “tougher” when you’re hitting on them in a club.
But some advice
First off, you’re almost always going to get a bit of resistance from hot women when you open them, and you need to accept that. Less attractive women will often be nice and flirty with you right away, especially if you’re well dressed and good looking, but truly gorgeous women will usually still present a challenge. They WILL try and knock you down, they will give you attitude. If you’re afraid of a little bit of verbal banter, you’ll never succeed with beautiful women. Learn to take a blow-off and turn it around. They will be impressed.
Second, it’s a lot easier to meet real 10′s in certain circumstances. If you’re at a trashy bar where she’s getting hit on badly every 30 seconds, you’ll have a harder time picking her up than at a classy place where every guy is too cool to approach her. At many upscale places (especially outside LA and NYC), guys have NO balls, you can stand out at a fancy place simply by having the courage to talk to a hot woman.
However, once you’ve gotten a 10′s interest, they’re pretty much the same as any other girl. The real challenge is TREATING them like they’re any other girl, and not caring too much or getting needy. You have to battle with your instincts which will tell you to put her on a pedistel, or over-analyze things. You need to really believe that you DESERVE HER. Because she will sense it if you don’t.
3 responses so far ↓
1 onethirtynine // Jun 30, 2008 at 9:54 am
So the best place to pick up is a classy bar outside of LA and NYC? Or are 10′s fewer outside of the major metropolises?
2 admin // Jun 30, 2008 at 10:29 am
The best place to meet tens is probably at a modeling studio, where you’re a photographer or an agent or something.
But for most guys, a really classy place in a large city is a pretty good bet. And 10′s are all over the place… it’s really a matter of what you’re into.
3 The owner // Jul 14, 2008 at 1:33 pm
My biggest problem is putting the 9′s and 10′s on a pedastal. After reading your advice, I realized that the hotter girls will challenge you right off the bat more than an average looking girl would. Once I get more comfortable interacting with the hotter babes, the more of an “abundance attitude” I can portray. Once a guy gets to that stage, you are gonna be set!
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