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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1967</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2011 03:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;If your answer is still no, you’re a cold hearted social retard who will die unhappy.&quot;

You do realize that you do not need a relationship to be happy right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;If your answer is still no, you’re a cold hearted social retard who will die unhappy.&#8221;</p>
<p>You do realize that you do not need a relationship to be happy right?</p>
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		<title>By: You know me</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1775</link>
		<dc:creator>You know me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Mar 2011 23:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a woman choosing to stay single... Unlike what the author wrote I&#039;m a very educated woman and I do know what I want. My problem is that a lot of men don&#039;t know what they want in a woman and when they get it they don&#039;t know what to do with me so, this has become a life style for me not just a choice</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a woman choosing to stay single&#8230; Unlike what the author wrote I&#8217;m a very educated woman and I do know what I want. My problem is that a lot of men don&#8217;t know what they want in a woman and when they get it they don&#8217;t know what to do with me so, this has become a life style for me not just a choice</p>
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		<title>By: Super She-Ro</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1554</link>
		<dc:creator>Super She-Ro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Nov 2010 16:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Part Deux:

I might also add that when some of these great guys moved on and got in a serious relationship...I was mortified. When I&#039;ve confronted them, they would always be like &quot;well do you want to get serious?&quot; My response was always a huge cringe and God no! Then they&#039;d be like so what do you expect me to do if I want to settle down? Long, long, sigh. I guess I want to have my cake and eat it to, but if it&#039;s my cake why can&#039;t I eat it too?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Part Deux:</p>
<p>I might also add that when some of these great guys moved on and got in a serious relationship&#8230;I was mortified. When I&#8217;ve confronted them, they would always be like &#8220;well do you want to get serious?&#8221; My response was always a huge cringe and God no! Then they&#8217;d be like so what do you expect me to do if I want to settle down? Long, long, sigh. I guess I want to have my cake and eat it to, but if it&#8217;s my cake why can&#8217;t I eat it too?</p>
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		<title>By: Super She-Ro</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1553</link>
		<dc:creator>Super She-Ro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Nov 2010 16:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a female who has met a couple great guys, however I do not want a relationship because I am extremely focused on my goals right now. In the past, I have been distracted and gotten sidetracked by trying to make time for those I was dating when I could. This detracted me and put me behind while trying to meet their needs. They&#039;d call me at inconvenient times (which anytime within a thirteen hour period was inconvenient). I&#039;d be annoyed, they&#039;d think I wasn&#039;t interested or cheating etc. Overall it just became an added stress. So, to put all that to an end I reiterate I&#039;m not looking for a relationship. This still does not work all the time as certain men still try to push the issue. It&#039;s as if my saying it makes them want to change my mind and committ. So, for me...committing to one guy is not on my important things to do today, tomorrow, or next year list. Also, I enjoy the freedom to hang with a new guy too if I chose to. I might add...I&#039;ve also had my feeling hurt pretty badly when I was in a longterm relationship in the past and guard my feelings like a Massai Warrior getting paid a million dollars an hour to protect a blood diamond.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a female who has met a couple great guys, however I do not want a relationship because I am extremely focused on my goals right now. In the past, I have been distracted and gotten sidetracked by trying to make time for those I was dating when I could. This detracted me and put me behind while trying to meet their needs. They&#8217;d call me at inconvenient times (which anytime within a thirteen hour period was inconvenient). I&#8217;d be annoyed, they&#8217;d think I wasn&#8217;t interested or cheating etc. Overall it just became an added stress. So, to put all that to an end I reiterate I&#8217;m not looking for a relationship. This still does not work all the time as certain men still try to push the issue. It&#8217;s as if my saying it makes them want to change my mind and committ. So, for me&#8230;committing to one guy is not on my important things to do today, tomorrow, or next year list. Also, I enjoy the freedom to hang with a new guy too if I chose to. I might add&#8230;I&#8217;ve also had my feeling hurt pretty badly when I was in a longterm relationship in the past and guard my feelings like a Massai Warrior getting paid a million dollars an hour to protect a blood diamond.</p>
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		<title>By: Tenmagnet</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1064</link>
		<dc:creator>Tenmagnet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 01:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You should work on that!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You should work on that!</p>
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		<title>By: never mind</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-1063</link>
		<dc:creator>never mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 00:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i am cold hearted so it looks like i will die unhappy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am cold hearted so it looks like i will die unhappy</p>
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		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-772</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 19:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] If you liked this post, check: I don&#8217;t want a relationship right now. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: 2nd girl asks about the 'rumour' of another - The Attraction Forums</title>
		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-619</link>
		<dc:creator>2nd girl asks about the 'rumour' of another - The Attraction Forums</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 19:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] first of all, check out my blog for my &quot;I don&#039;t want a relationship&quot; post for how to handle that phrase.   As for the jealousy plotline thing, what you did wrong [...]</description>
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		<link>http://www.tenmagnet.com/2007/08/23/i-dont-want-a-relationship-right-now/comment-page-1/#comment-266</link>
		<dc:creator>Tenmagnet, you&#8217;re such a player! &#124; Thoughtmagnet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 02:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] try and pretend that you&#8217;re looking for a relationship when you&#8217;re not (read my &#8220;I dont want a relationship&#8221; post for more info on that). And don&#8217;t try to pretend to be deep or romantic or any of [...]</description>
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