Another repost from the forums….
So, I went to a few clubs the last few weeks knowing they would become my new sarging locations pretty soon. The routines that work on campus girls just don’t fly there. They either seem really disinterested or they immediately catch on to what I’m doing and their shields go on max. I know it’s mostly my fault because I’m used to a quiet location where the women there don’t expect to be picked up and clubs are basically the opposite. Frankly, I don’t even really enjoy the club scene.
Do I need to suck it up and keep trying at clubs until I come to like it and improve or are cafes, pubs and places where girls generally don’t go with the intention to get picked up just as good?
By the way, if it helps for advice on clubs, I usually use the Jealous girlfriend or spells openers or if the club is really bouncing, I might improvise with something like, “Man, it’s really dead in here!” to be funny.
You’re right man, clubs are not the easiest place to pick up in. That’s not why we go there, we go there *because* it’s hard.
If you want to improve your skills, if you want to get good. If you want to be the kind of guy who can see a girl, walk into a crowd of people and leave with her phone number, clubs are the best way to learn how.
If you’re happy to just meet girls at coffee shops, get a few dates here and there and date average girls, what you’re doing is fine. There’s nothing wrong with that. But if you want to get better, you need to push yourself.
Club game isn’t even that hard. You need higher energy, and you need to move faster and be more aggressive. You can’t sit and hesitate the way you can in a library, keeping your nose in your book until you build up the balls to approach. But if you get good at clubs, you’ll be able to go back to your coffee shops and campuses and it will be nice and easy for you.
4 responses so far ↓
1 beek // Jul 3, 2007 at 11:51 am
yup, being aggressive is the hardest thing to learn if you were me, but getting there- and loving it
2 Wonger // Jul 3, 2007 at 8:07 pm
Hey!
What up, Im form Monterrey, Mexico lair
I have like 6 months in the community learing new things all day with puas from Monterrey, Tampico, Mexico, Aguascalientes…
by today i have made differts kinds of closes but never enter in the seduccion phase… Im not virgin but i really dont know how to establish a relationship with no compromise with one girl Im hangin out with.. Im stoked in comfort… what can I do to escale it to the next phase?
3 beek // Jul 4, 2007 at 1:07 am
ok, i love the club. one thing i noticed tonight that i’ve done a few times. protected the girl from creepy drunk dancy guy (lots of kino too
leader of men; be able to stand your ground and be uber friendly to the guys who arent testing you, and the guys who did and you showed them up.
it’s still loud as balls in there and good luck as always. i turned a day2 into a day2 with ex-target’s sister tomorrow. there will be fireworks so help me god.
4 Tenmagnet // Jul 4, 2007 at 9:03 am
Beek,
You’re totally right. Playing off another guy’s incompetence at a club is an awesome way to open and build attraction.
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