In my last post, I promised that I’d give some specific examples of Easter Egg Theory in action. So here we go…
If you’ve read Magic Bullets, you probably know that one of the things you want to communicate to a woman is that you regularly date beautiful women, and that you’re basically in “her league” or higher, dating wise. So how do we communicate that we date beautiful women while being subtle? Let’s look at some examples.
So imagine you’re telling a story which has an ex gf in it… you want to communicate that she was particularly good looking.
Unsubtle: So I was with my ex-gf, who is really hot. Guys hit on her all the time, and….
Unsubtle: So I was with my ex-gf. She’s a model. Anyway, she was driving home…
Subtle: So I was with my ex-gf, and she was like the stereotypical southern-belle sorority girl. Think Reese Witherspoon in “Legally Blonde” or something… Anyway, she was driving home.
Subtle: So I was with my ex-gf, and she’s Brazilian, so whenever there is music on, she’s always dancing.
What’s the difference between the unsubtle and subtle versions? The main difference is that in the subtle versions, I’m giving a more complete character description, as opposed to just describing her looks. When I tell the girl to “Think Reese Witherspoon in Legally Blonde” it sounds like I’m describing her character, but I’m also saying that she’s Reese Witherspoon good looking.
Likewise, I often use ethnicity to make a girl sound hot. When you ask your average American WASP girl from the suburbs to imagine a Brazilian, Argentinian, Columbian, or French girl, they’re usually going to imagine someone really good looking. You can use those stereotypes to your advantage. Also, I’ve dated a lot of girls from those ethnicities, and they ARE good looking 
Here’s another example.
Unsubtle: So I was talking to her, and she was totally hitting on me!
Subtle: So I was talking to her, and she was really interesting. She wound up inviting my friends and I to an afterhours party at her place.
Women are very perceptive, and if they’re attracted to you they’re scanning for this stuff. Girls know what it means when they invite a guy to an afterhours party – they want to hook up. So by simply mentioning this invitation, you’re communicating that she was hitting on you, without saying it explicitly.
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love it.
I use this little story alot, im not really sure if it works effectively, but i know i say it early on in set.
“I like stupid girls. Like i dated all the wrong type of women back in high school. You know Mean Girls? Yeah she was like the bitch queen, she was so hard to deal with. I dont know why i go for sorority girls like them!”
Pretty much i intend to convey that i dated the hot stuck up bitches, the ‘popular’ girl that all the other girls envy and call slutty.
Do u think thats effective? any ways to polish it 10magnet?
-JimSmith
I have been to brazil and colombia, lots and lots of ugly girls. But I agree in the minds of most americans , it sounds sexy.
-Jim
I see what you’re getting at with this story, but I don’t think it’s communicating what you want it to communicate.
The way it’s written here, it looks like you’re talking crap about ex girlfriends, and like you date girls you don’t really like. That’s the behavior of a guy who doesn’t have many options.
Also, if you DID date the “bitch queen”, you wouldn’t describe her the way you do. You’re describing her the way an outsider from her group might describe her, not the way that an ex-bf would. If you dated her, she wouldn’t have been a “bitch queen” to you.
Hey Tenmagnet, just curious; Do you teach 1 in 1′s? (Actually 2 in 1′s).
My wing and me are curious about the possibility now that you are in Europe, (not far from Spain).
Is it a possibility? Price?
Thanks in advance.
I do one-on-ones every once in a while. I’m pretty much booked solid while I’m in London, but Cajun (my #1 wingman) will be in Europe too, he might be able to make it out.
Contact the MM Head Office at
800.680.0821 if you want to set something up.
Ah, cool. I’ll contact MM and check it out.
Yet I haven’t heard or read anything about Cajun…Is he good? (At Pick-up and in teaching – finding and correcting sticking points).
Thanks again.
PS: I didn’t tell you before, but I like your blog, keep it up!
Cajun is awesome… highly recommended. He’s got excellent game, and is a very good teacher.
Hey man! This stuff is pretty solid and isn’t really new but very well explained then what you’ve heard before.
One thing that does kind of confuse me is
“Women are very perceptive, and if they’re attracted to you they’re scanning for this stuff.”
And if she’s NOT attracted? Isn’t that the (main) purpose of saying these things? If she’s not attracted she’ll go like “oh okay”.
What to do when a girl is non responsive?
Good question… the fact is, if you’ve been talking to her for 5 minutes, you’ve negged and you have good BL, you should have enough attraction to use this. You just need a *bit*, and you’re good.
But yeah, if she hates your guts, this won’t change anything.
hey 10Magnet
i was reading your comment on the gals that dont respond when u start a conversation, i kind of dint get ur response, and plus how would u get over gals who stereotype guys based on race and religion and nationality
i have noticed that gals are scared of certain nationalities and they love if u say u are a mix of three different races, so i lie is that OK to do
And what if later u like the gal and later they find out, how to calm them down for ur lies..lol
Simple, don’t lie. Just make your own truths. You can say you’re I dunno portugese, irish, and french. And then if she asks deeper questions say your great great great grandfather was from portugal or something.
PS it’s easier if you want to do this to mix the “your truth” in with some of your real background so that you’re never telling 100% bullshit, and you won’t accidentally give it away by being unconfident about what you’re saying
Peace
- Panzerhaust
awesome
I never had what I believe were good looks. So I’ve always depended on the things I said to women. I’m married and taking a human sexuality class as one of my core requirements. As I’ve been reading all of your info I’ve found that I’ve become a social butterfly in life at a young age by using many of the same things you’ve talked about. It’s a great thing that your doing for many lonely guys out there, everyone deserves love.
Also, something I’ve found in starting a conversation with anyone is to ask them a question about something their reading, wearing, eating, ect… I could always tell by their responces whether they wanted to give me the time of day or not and also, whenever talking with females I’ve found that for some reason they love to talk about themselves, so I asked a lot of questions about them. Even though I’m married, the same thing I used when single still help in making friendships.