Usually the way I incorporate dancing into my game is by opening the usual way, and then a few minutes in start dancing with the girl, and then go back to regular conversation and sit down after a song or two.
If you’re a decent dancer – the average WASP American is terrible – you’ll create a lot of attraction.
A few things I’ve observed:
Opening on the dancefloor – I find that usually what happens is that girls open me. I don’t have a systematic way of opening targets, it’s kind of a “wait and see” approach. I would love to hear if someone out there has the dancing equivalent of an “opinion opener”, that can open almost any set.
Talking on the dancefloor – You really can’t talk much at all on the dancefloor. My conversations usually are no more than me giving her funny dancing advice and then commenting on her dancing.
Comfort – Obviously you can’t do comfort on the dance floor, so you need to get her off the dance floor at some time so you can have a deep conversation. Dancing the night away isn’t usually a solid strategy.
Sexual Kino – I avoid getting too freaky with girls on the dance floor. It’s really tempting, but it makes your phone numbers flakey. If she starts getting freaky on me, I just whisper in her ear, “not here”. We can save the freakyness for later.
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1 Anonymous // May 1, 2007 at 9:13 pm
Tenmag,
Heys it AJ from NYC.
What type of dance lessons
do you recommend to become
good?
Any cool videos to practice
the basics?
Thx,
AJ
2 Tenmagnet // May 3, 2007 at 10:43 am
I really like salsa dancing… most of the moves are pretty applicable to plain old bar dancing, unlike ballroom or other styles, which often don’t go too well with Justin Timberlake.
As for videos, music videos are good to watch.
3 Mild Seven // May 3, 2007 at 11:53 am
I have no problem opening on the dancefloor. I just get funky next to a set, look over at and then face the set and start doing some high energy “wave yo’ hands in tha air” kind of thing and shout “woo-hoo” or whatever. That opens them easily. Then start lightly hip thrusting the target from the side. Very easy to escalate from there. Very few fail to reciprocate the hip thrust. Sometimes I just open by hip thrusting as soon as the target sees me. Usually works.
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