What it’s like to be a hot girl.
So I dropped Olga off at the airport last night. This was the first time I’d gone on a trip with someone I was dating, and it was a good experience.
It was interesting though to spend a week with her and to see the way she interacts with the world and with men. In many ways, her life is typical of many beautiful women you will meet.
First of all, you can’t leave her alone at a bar for a minute before some chode (my generic term for any guy I don’t respect) comes and hits on her. If I turn around to get a beer, some dude is grinding up next to her in 30 seconds. When she went to the parking lot to drop off some clothes she had bought, some guy offered her $1,000 for sex.
No wonder a lot of beautiful women can have a cynical attitude about men. No wonder they travel in groups, and go to the bathroom together. The average guy acts pretty lame around her, and a small number of guys act downright creepy. It was strange enough to experience this for a week, but Olga has dealt with this since she was 14 years old.
What makes the Mystery Method so powerful is that for all the guys who incompetently hit on her, I never saw a guy actually do a smooth approach. Every guy who says “you’re pretty” as the first thing out of his mouth, or leans in, just makes it more remarkable when one of my students approaches the way you’re SUPPOSED to approach
Jesus Tenmagnet… that is creepy what you said about the guy offering her money… agh
January 6th, 2007 at 11:55 amTenmagnet,
Hey, man, I met you in Seattle when you were there in November, and had a similar experience over Christmas while visiting a girl in Boston. Every time I’d go to the bathroom or get a drink, it was like some dude was hitting on her, even though she was clearly there with me. One guy is literally trying to grab her away from me while we’re making out on the dance floor, wtf? I was so floored by it I didn’t even really know how to handle it, so I basically was just gave him a funny look and ignored him. In retrospect I should have done something, but I’m still not sure what to do in that situation.
January 9th, 2007 at 10:07 pmHey Tenmagnet, who will be doing the bootcamp with you?
- s
January 10th, 2007 at 2:38 amI did the bootcamp with Neo last weekend. This week it’s me and Cajun in Toronto.
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