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Daytime Dating expert Jeremy Soul just posted this video online where you can see him illustrate some of the things guys do wrong in dating. Pretty funny if you ask me.

Also – check out how Jeremy’s bodylanguage changes when he takes on the different roles. It’s a very good illustration of how good bodylanguage differs from bad.

Cajun and Vercetti’s new, kick ass product on Bodylanguage is now available.

This is a definite must see, and there’s some free advice on the splash page. Make sure you check this out!

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What makes the difference between good game and great game?

What is that “je ne sais quois” that guys who get good understand, but a lot of men struggle to use properly.

The answer is, of course, bodylanguage, pretty much every guy worth his salt in the Dating Science industry knows this.

So, if you’re serious about improving you game, you NEED to check out Beyond Words: The Art of Body Language and Physical Escalation with Cajun and Vercetti. There are free videos on the website, and the big launch is tomorrow morning. This thing is going to be huge.

A guy on the Lovesystems Lounge recently posted this question, and it represents a common problem amongst guys who are new to the game, so I thought I would post it here.

What I find is that in some sets, I do the majority of the talking. Meaning, I start a thread, we talk about it for a bit and then it dies down. I start up a new one and yada yada the same thing. In some of my sets the girls give me like one word answers and they invest very little into the conversation. Like I will ask them a question, they will answer, but then thats it. For some reason, I am not getting the indicators of interest that I want. Things such as girls asking me my name, where am from. I feel as though am doing all the talking and the girls seem disinterested in what I have to say, like they start looking around, or give me one word answers.

Maybe this was just one of those nights, where nothing sticks, am not sure, but it’s a shitty feeling, because although am doing best to absorb the social pressure and stay in set I feel like a rambling fool for doing all the talking.

If you’re having problems getting attraction, it’s usually because of something you’re doing wrong earlier in the interaction. There are a few things you are probably doing wrong based on this description.

1) Being too gamey. MORE IS NOT BETTER when you’re talking about attraction routines – they can pretty quickly get weird. Attraction routines are great for when you get stuck – when you don’t know what to say next. But what really generates attraction is when you demonstrate wit, poise, and humor. If you’re not demonstrating these things (or one of the other attraction switches) you’re not generating attraction, attraction routine or not.

You want to engage the set, make them laugh, generate a bit of attraction and then CHILL. Either continue with some good fluff talk, pick up the kino and/or move into qualification. That is to say, once you HAVE attraction, you need to move forward to the next step in the Lovesystems triad. If you keep trying for more attraction, you will blow it.

2) Being weak on the opener. If your opener is weak, you’ll usually see the effects about a minute or two in. Opening/transitioning poorly can make it very hard to get attraction. If you’re nervous on the opener, if you’ve been sitting by the bar with your beer stuck to your chest looking awkward for the past 15 minutes, if you come across too eager or like you’re reading a script, these things will often mess up your game about 3-5 minutes into the set. Practice your openers, practice making them spontaneous, invent your own openers, and above all else, HAVE FUN when you’re out, and make that energy infectious.

3) Not plowing. Some women will giggle and be all over you when they’re attracted – many will not. Some women  are bad conversationalists, some women are shy. Some women have bad game and will ask you boring questions over and over. There are a lot of reasons why a woman might not give you strong IOI’s (indicators of interest), so you can’t really sit around and wait for those IOI’s. Keep moving forward, and if you get a “red light” or she’s clearly showing disinterest, back off and move on. But don’t bail just because a woman isn’t giving you strong “I like you” signals.

4) Short setting. A lot of the time, the sets I do early in the night have the same problem –  the women are friendly enough, but chemistry doesn’t come easily. You can do really well for yourself by bailing from those sets after 2 minutes or so (on a high note) and re-opening at midnight when the girls have a few more beers in them and have seen you having a great time around the bar. Suddenly, there’s chemistry.

So, I’ve just announced I’ll be doing some free talks in Australia (dates to come), but I also want to do one in Japan. Problem is, I have no idea where to start. If you can help find a venue, and put me in touch with the local “community” message me at <my handle> at lovesystems.com

I’m sitting in a pub in the Garden district of New Orleans, listening to some classic blues and sweating my balls off. I’m in the midst of a mini-tour of the Sourthern US. I like life on the road, going from one town to another, new, exciting things every day, feeling like a nomad.

So when Savoy called me up and asked me to do Japan and Australia this July and August, I snapped up the chance. I have some unfinished business with Australia, mostly in the form of parking tickets and tolls unpaid, but also a sense that I didn’t really get a feel for the country last time I was there. The whole incident involving Cajun cast a bit of a pall over things, and I carry a sense of regret that I didn’t get as much surfing in as I could have.

So I’m going to be doing a big tour this summer (winter in OZ). Tokyo, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth and Sydney. In every city, I’m going to make myself available to give a free talk. I’m also looking for guys who can help me organize these talks – message me at <my handle> at lovesystems.com. This tour is going to kick some serious ass, so sign up to the Lovesystems Insider to be kept abreast of what’s going on.

The bootcamps in Tokyo, Brisbane and Perth are going to be ONE TIME ONLY events, with highly limited enrollment. Right now these are limited to THREE students at each program,  and we’ve already sold one ticket in Tokyo and Brisbane (three months in advance!) these programs are pretty much GUARANTEED to sell out, so you really need to sign up now if you want to attend. If you’re interested, please sign up on the website or call Jeremy at +1 323 836 0150. We’re on Pacific Time, or GMT -8, so any time BEFORE noon Sydney time should be fine.

And as I said earlier, signing up for the Lovesystems Insider will get you inside information of Free Talks and bootcamps as they are announced. I can’t recommend it highly enough, and you can sign up near the top left of this page.

There’s an interesting conversation going on in the Attraction Forums right now. A prospective student wants to know if Lovesystems works, and whether he can trust what we’re teaching. The full thread can be found here.

Fader makes a good reply when he writes:

There are a pics on the lovesystems site. Your best bet is to try it out for yourself. There are tons of people here who it has worked here for. Your challenge is you are looking for it not to work. I just looked through your posting history. Have you actually gone out and tried it?

A CMPitts addresses the point too…

Here’s the LS youtube feed. You can find infield videos, interviews, and other bits of knowledge. On some of the videos, you can see the types of girls LS instructors regularly interact with, and what their skills are.

It’s completely normal not to trust a business company in the beginning, especially with such a controversial topic as learning how to meet and seduce women. That’s where our reviews section comes in handy. It’s chalked full of user reports of LS bootcamps, and products, as well as a comparison against other products in the seduction industry. You can say that its biased, but to a certain extant, every company is trying to make themselves look good. However you will also find bad reviews, which any respectable company will include in order to show their potential customers the real deal.

We aren’t asking you to trust us right off the bat. We ask you to research your options and make an informed choice. We believe that you will choose Love Systems because we are the best choice in the industry; which can be determined based on reviews, comparisons, team composition, instructor knowledge and customer support. If there is something you don’t like, or a reason why you didn’t choose our products, then let us know. Your feedback allow us to improve our company and put out better products for our posterity.

And finally, Future silences all critics

Aestus, I’ll clear this up once and for all.
Please give me your sister’s phone number and tell me where I can find that one girl you always wanted but never thought you could get. I’m in Manhattan, so give me some travel time to set you straight.

** 5.0 & Kechain are coming to Amsterdam **

Despite the Icelandic God’s best attempts, 5.0 & Keychain have flights and are hitting Amsterdam for one night only!

Who are the isntructors?

5.0 famously made his name in the community working training The Streets frontman Mike Skinner on his TV show ‘Beat Stevie‘

Keychain was ranked as 2009’s #8 Pick-Up-Artist in the World and voted #3 Instructor at the Love Systems Super Conference in Las Vegas.

As part of the Love Systems Mini Seminar tour of Europe, you have a chance to have a live session with these top instructors who will deliver content usually exclusive to our $3,000 bootcamps for only €38 AND will include a Q&A session at the end where you can get individualised feedback.

Thats 5 hours of pure content – cutting-edge dating and attraction advice from one of Love Systems hottest instructors - for only €38!

This is a great opportunity to meet and learn from one of the world’s best PUA coaches at this amazing price!

This is what a client from the last bootcamp in London had to say:

5.0:
“This guy can rapid fire banter so quickly and effortlessly that if you can emulate him to just a fraction of his skill you’ll be able to destroy any shit test or bitch shield with ease”

Keychain:
“I worked with him on the first night and he had me opening some insanely difficult sets… He is a true master of the arts and has injected his own personal style into it.”

Read more reviews from 5.0 here & more about Keychain here

Due to demand there is extremely limited availability so get your tickets from the EventBrite Site now for only €38!

See you there!

-5.0

The videos from our Toronto TV appearance are now online. If you’ve ever wondered what a Lovesystems bootcamp looks like from the inside, here’s a little peek!

Here at Lovesystems, we don’t hide from the media or try to veil ourselves in secrecy. We’re proud of what we do; so when CP24, a Toronto news station, was doing a show on “Pick Up Artists” and wanted to sit in on our Toronto bootcamp, we were happy to invite them along.

Now, personally, I don’t like calling myself a pick up artist – I like to see myself as a dating coach, who also happens to have be good with women himself. But if people on TV and in the media want to call me a pick up artist, they can go ahead.

They sat in on about an hour of the program, and then followed us on Sunday evening (after the bootcamp), as we gave two students a bit of advice, and sent them into talk to some girls (who knew what was going on, as they had agreed to releases). Anyway, it all worked out really well, and Cajun was interviewed afterwards in the studio about dating and seduction.

The videos are now available online:

Sex Matters on Pick Up Artists Part 1

Sex Matters on Pick Up Artists Part 2

Sex Matters on Pick Up Artists Part 3

Sex Matters on Pick Up Artists Part 4

Now… is it just me, or is the host hitting on Cajun?